Being an escort…the natural way!

Escort… yes, but also a professional in my….other life as it were. And so, I was reading this article in some specialized paper, on plastic surgery and psychological pros & cons of it. To my surprise there was a lot of talking about surgery and outcome expectations and how that impacts on the psychological and emotional reaction of patience after the the surgical intervention. Enough to make me want to puke as a Bi Escort in this refined Paddington!

But what about expectations on our selves? Are we loosing touch with reality? Are we replacing ourselves with enhanced magazine images? Isn’t this emotional suicide? would it be fair to say that perhaps the est thing to do is to evaluate expectations we and others have of our own selves? I mean, do i really want a future husband who wants me to have 3 cup sizes bigger than what I was born with? Is that the kind of father I want for my children? Do I want to be the woman I saw in a salon, who cried like mad because they got the cut wrong and she was screaming how her boyfriend would have left her for that? expectations, do we have them right? Really? What happened to I love you just the way you are!? Even I get to hear that as an escort, by both men and women since I am bisexual (for real), so why isn’t this the norm?

Yumiko at Paddington

Especially as a Escort in a competitive city like London, I get to see so many girls with everything done, nose, teeth, boobs, bum, lypo, and who knows what else. There is a sense of it all never being good enough and so I wonder whether this is how these women feel inside, as if they are never good enough? but then surely surgery isn’t the answer to their problem is it?

I am concerned as to the way things are going, especially in the escorting world, where women measure their sense of worth mostly on their looks. plastic surgery is becoming ever so popular and the boundaries are pushed as we speak. this cannot be a good thing in my view.

I am a 100% natural bisexual Paddington Escort, who is comfortable with my own body and looks in general and is capable of appreciating the female body in its most natural form. we may not be all like Barbie, but what about charm, sex appeal? Are you waiting for some super prodigious LA surgeon to come along and offer you that too?

Just a little reflection on a not so sunny day.

Yumiko xxx…